In 2007, my grandfather was diagnoses with age related dementia. I am his power of attorney and sought to have his last years be the best they could. He lived in Ft. Worth in a tiered community and until he started falling, I was fine with traveling from Dallas to see him.
I struggled to find good care for him that his annuity would be able to cover. I moved to an apartment to be closer to him. However with his care costs and my living expenses going up, I decided to become his full time care giver. In August 2011, I quit my job and we moved in together.
His favorite activity is to get in the car and drive. I plan activities in and outside of the home to make these last days memorable. In October, he’ll be 101 years old.
I am sad to report that Gpa died on Jan 15th. He is missed by many. I will continue to blog on my experience as I soldier on without him. I am so glad you came by to check out the blog.
The week he died, I promised him I would continue to do the things I love, the juggling and the music. I am still creating amazing sing-a-long events and teaching juggling. I hope someday you can join me.
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Best wishes Laura.
I hope these days are happy and memorable ones for both of you, and that your grandfather has a very happy birthday.
IsobelandCat, Thanks for the best wishes! I can’t think of any place I’d rather be. We are working on birthday plans now!
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FS
Bless you, Laura. I went through Alzheimer’s with an aunt. It’s a one day at a time experience.
Tony
Thank you